THE GREAT GATSBY
by F. Scott Fitzgerald
SPOILER ALERT.....
This classic American novel from 1925 traces the life of a mysterious man named Jay Gatsby through the eyes of his friend, Nick Carraway. Gatsby is an enigma. He lives in an impossibly extravagant mansion in an exclusive part of New York. He throws lavish parties and yet his guests barely know him. He seems to be an observer of others, detached from his surroundings. As the novel progresses, we come to understand he has curated this lifestyle with the sole aim of enticing a former lover, Daisy, back into his life. Consumed by this aspiration, Gatsby puts on an impressive display. Yet his preoccupation blinds him to the very real flaws in Daisy's character and the inconvenient fact that she is married. At the end of the novel, after Daisy has casually rejected Gatsby, Nick muses on Gatsby's fate:
'...his dream must have seemed so close that he could hardly fail to grasp it. He did not know that it was already behind him...'
For me, this observation beautifully captures the essence of Gatsby's downfall. He has, as Nick observes, been reaching for a 'dream'. Yet dreams are, by their nature, fantastical. In Gatsby's case, the dream is a highly idealised version of his past. By investing all his energy in trying to re-create his mis-remembered past, Gatsby remains blind to the inconvenient truths of his present. In this way, he is doomed to fail.
Viewing people or events from our past through rose-tinted glasses can be harmless. However, if an idealised past becomes a template for what we want now, we are likely to be disappointed. Taking the time to look at the past more objectively - noting differences in circumstances then and now; perhaps being honest with ourselves about what we might be choosing to ignore - can free us from chasing the impossible, instead setting us on track to make decisions rooted in reality.